Creating a Parenting Plan in Illinois
A well-crafted parenting plan is one of the most important parts of any custody matter in Illinois. It outlines how parents will share responsibilities, how decisions will be made, and how children will move between households. At Conniff & Keleher, LLC, we help families in Chicago, Oak Park, and across Chicagoland build thoughtful, child-focused plans that support cooperation and stability.
Whether your relationship with the other parent is collaborative or strained, understanding the requirements for a parenting plan in Illinois will help you make informed choices.
Required Elements of a Parenting Plan in Illinois
Illinois law requires that every parenting plan contain specific details to ensure clarity and reduce conflict. When creating a parenting plan in Illinois, parents must include:
Allocation of Significant Decision-Making Responsibilities
These decisions typically include:
- Education
- Health and medical care
- Religion
- Extracurricular activities
Parents may share responsibilities or divide them in a way that best meets the child’s needs.
Parenting Time Schedule
This schedule outlines:
- Weekday and weekend parenting time
- School breaks
- Holidays
- Vacations
- Transportation responsibilities
Courts prefer predictable schedules that support consistency for the child.
Communication Between Parents and Children
Parenting plans must describe:
- How parents communicate about the child
- How the child may communicate with the other parent when not with them
- Any technology guidelines (phone, video calls, etc.)
Provisions for Resolving Disputes
Plans should include methods for resolving disagreements, such as:
- Mediation
- Parenting coordinators
- Direct negotiation
At Conniff & Keleher, we emphasize creative, personalized solutions that reduce conflict whenever possible.
Best-Interest Factors for Parenting Plan Decisions
When parents cannot agree, the court will evaluate any parenting plan in Illinois using statutory best-interest factors. These may include:
The Child’s Needs and Developmental Stage
Courts look at emotional, educational, and physical needs.
Each Parent’s Ability to Cooperate
The court may consider patterns of communication or conflict.
Past Participation in Caretaking
Judges assess who has historically handled schoolwork, medical appointments, meals, routines, and day-to-day care.
The Child’s Adjustment to Home, School & Community
Courts aim to preserve stability whenever possible.
Safety, Well-Being & Any Risk Factors
This includes domestic violence, substance abuse, or other concerns.
Holiday Schedules, Special Occasions & Practical Tips
Because holidays often create tension, parents should be specific when designing a parenting plan in Illinois. Consider:
Alternating Holidays
For example:
- Thanksgiving: Alternate annually
- Winter holidays: Split or alternate
- Mother’s Day/Father’s Day: Always with the corresponding parent
School Breaks & Summer Schedules
These often differ from the standard weekly routine. Many parents include:
- Extended summer vacation blocks
- Clear start/end times
- Travel notice requirements
Tips for Avoiding Conflict
- Use shared family calendars
- Exchange important information in writing
- Be specific in the plan to avoid ambiguity later
Our team often helps parents build practical, child-centered holiday schedules that reflect their unique family traditions.
Supplemental FAQ: Parenting Plan Questions Answered
Ideally yes, but not always. If parents cannot agree, each may submit a separate plan and the court will decide.
Parents are required to submit a parenting plan within 120 days of the case being filed.
The court may proceed without their input. A judge can enter a parenting plan that serves the child’s best interests.
Yes. If there is a substantial change in circumstances or the existing plan no longer meets the child’s best interests, parents may request modification. A parenting plan can also be modified by written agreement of the parents with a showing that the modifications are in the child’s best interests.
Yes — and Illinois courts frequently encourage it. Mediation can reduce conflict and help parents reach more personalized agreements.
Conclusion
Creating a parenting plan is one of the most important ways parents can support their children during separation or divorce. With thoughtful planning and clear communication, families can build a structure that promotes stability, cooperation, and emotional well-being.
At Conniff & Keleher, LLC, we bring compassionate, experienced guidance to help parents craft plans that truly reflect their child’s needs. Whether you’re navigating a contested dispute or pursuing a collaborative resolution, we’re here to support you every step of the way.
Contact our Chicago or Oak Park office to begin shaping a parenting plan that works for your family.
